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[nanslice]

SUPER unhappy that family has come over today. I'm hiding in my room because I'm not in the mood to deal with them. And no one asked if they could come over! They just kind of announced that they would be! Why do people think this is okay?

Definitely discussed this with my therapist because I was Upset about it on Thursday and even he was like "wow that's pretty rude" so I know that while the amount of negativity I'm feeling about it is over the top, the fact that I'm feeling negativity at all is pretty valid. Which....good.

Edit: and then I went in the kitchen for something and my sister told my great-niece that she's needs to jump on me for a hug. Like, seriously? Not cool.

Comments

[badfalcon]

Ugh no, just... no. So very inconsiderate and nope. I hope they all go away again soon

[divinemusings]

I hate when people do that. It is rude!

[girlofprey]

Well, that does sound incredibly rude. Especially telling a kid to jump on you, as if that's better than asking you, if she really felt the need to try to get one.

[cocosmileyboo]

I can't stand it when people do that and I don't care who it is, you just don't invite yourself and/or come over unannounced. It's one of those things that just rubs me the wrong way. I'm sorry you had to deal with that. :(

[alisanne]

Ugh. So intrusive.
No wonder you're displeased. :(

[cye_of_the_torrent]

I hate when family does that. :(

[lil_1337]

I hate HATE drop in visits. They are the worst.

[novel_machinist]

UGH I HATE that. My inlaws are known to just swing in and I loathe it. I mean, they're nice people, but usually, I have plans for my day EVEN IF they just include me dicking around with nothing.